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Friction vs. Traction

Friction -vs- Traction

I am sitting on the couch, in front of the fire, missing my Encounter Church family.  We have gotten a bit of ice and people are slipping around, so we have called service today.  This brings the topic of “traction” front and center.

I recently read a book by Erwin McManus called " An Unstoppable Force" and he makes the distinction between traction and friction. The same issue, substance or obstacle that causes friction in our lives also gives us traction to overcome it. I think over some of the greatest obstacles in my life and have to say they have been just that, friction (pain, road-rash, etc...) and traction. The very things that I asked God to remove have been the platforms to get me to where I am today.

Had we not gone through the struggles of the past year, we would never see the amazing time we are having planting Encounter Church today! It is easy to curse the darkness, but remember if it were not for the darkness you would never enjoy the light.

Two things I learned in the darkness that have kept me until daybreak:

1. Never let go of His hand. There is an old song, "When you can't see his face, trust his heart". I say, "When you can't see His face, hold on for dear life!" When Peter started to sink, Jesus reached out for him, or probably more accurate, Jesus reached out and Peter grabbed Him. The best place to be when you are sinking is holding on to the Rock.

2. Learn all you can. When it's darkest it seems like your other senses step up to compensate for the loss of sight, especially your hearing. When you are in the dark, listen carefully. John Maxwell says when you fall, pick something up while your down there. Don't be too quick to jump back up. Learn all you can. Listen to the Spirit, to mentors, to friends. The more you learn while you are there the better your chances are of not being there again.

Lastly, know you are not alone. Even though it is dark and you cannot see anyone around you, know there are many others in the dark with you. One commonality we all have is that we all find ourselves in the dark from time to time...

While you are sitting in your warm homes today, enjoying an unexpected rest, reflect on the times you have faced the most friction.  Can you see the traction those times brought?  Think of the “blessings” that were hidden in the pain.  What would you have missed in life had you not gone through that time?

There are some things I never want to repeat again… but they have made me who I am today.

God bless, stay warm and safe!

James & Deidre



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