I have spent a good deal of time in the church world. My wife, Deidre and I have been in full-time pastoral ministry since 1998. It started when we moved everything we had from Elkton, MD, where we were youth pastors, to Port St. Lucie, FL to assume the pastorate of a church in South Florida. We were young, energetic, and in some ways, very naive. But what we lacked in experience we made up for in passion for the vision God had given us.
It didn't take long to realize that vision was just not enough. We learned this the hard way, over almost ten years of pastoral ministry in Florida. We watched as pastors across the country fell into dark places or financial indiscretions, moral issues, and even things that were just plain illegal. We struggled personally with the desire to grow a church, and fell into the trap of following the newest ministry fad. We tried to be all the "successful" preachers we knew. I would even stand ...